The name of a movie with angela bett in? later she dies at the end ; they play oo child (song)?

its this movie where angela bett plays in its set in new york i think and she had a girl and like three boys. and the girl went to go stay with some relative . i cant really describe . but in the beginning of the movie the little black girl was caught stealing meat and stuff from the store and was caught. another part was where she peed on her self cause she couldnt make it to the bathroom . im confusng you probably ? sorry tho . i just really need to know that movie title.