Mothers of multiples and preemies, who was your main support?

my son was born a preemie he spent 2 months in nicu then when he was 1 he was hospitalized from rsv. my main support has always been my mom she has always been there by my side. if it was not for her i don't know what i would have done. oh yea in the nicu there was a really wonderful nurse that helped me she was the best. i felt alone some times i still do but i know my mom was right there feeling the same way i did she would always think what could have i done to help so my daughter did not have giving birth early well there was nothing she could have changed. so she was by my side feeling the same as i was•